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šļø Buy Now, Cry Later: The Hidden Costs of BNPL Apps Explained
What āBuy Now, Pay Laterā isnāt telling youāand why it could quietly derail your financial goals.

Welcome Back, Future Funder!
Those slick āBuy Now, Pay Laterā buttons at checkout feel harmlessāalmost helpful. Split $80 into four easy payments? Why not?
But hereās the thing: BNPL isnāt a budgeting tool. Itās a debt trap in disguise.
One thatās about to start affecting your credit score, and more importantlyāyour ability to build real wealth.
This week, weāre digging into:
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What BNPL apps are actually doing to your finances
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The bigger mindset shift behind avoiding debtāeven small debt
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How to protect your credit score and your future
Letās talk long-term thinking and short-term temptation.
Bon a petit! š§āš³
āSo, you financed a burrito into 4 installments?ā
āYes, Dave.ā
āAnd you have $50,000 in student loans you havenāt paid in years?ā
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š½ļø Main Course: Debt Disguised as Convenience
Buy Now, Pay Later (BNPL) exploded from $2B in 2013 to over $340B globally in 2023, according to Worldpay.
Thatās not budgetingāthatās a debt boom.
š¤ What is BNPL really doing?
Itās not free. Even with 0% offers, youāre still on the hook for paymentsāand late fees can add up fast.
Credit bureaus are about to start factoring BNPL into your scoreānot all credit bureaus, but some like FICO.
It normalizes spending money you donāt have.
Just because it feels casual doesnāt mean itās not debt. And by the end of this newsletter, youāll see how BNPL payments can really delay your progress elsewhere.

š³ A BNPL charge is still a loan
Letās break it down:
š§¾ Youāve taken on debt
Even four payments of $25? Still a loan. Still a risk.
š Youāre spending tomorrowās money today
āJust $10 this weekā becomes $200 in surprise autopayments next month.
š¬ It could impact your credit score
Some agencies now treat BNPL like a revolving loan. Miss a payment or stack up too many, and it dings your profile.
š„ It delays what matters most
Every $40 BNPL charge is $40 not going into savings, an emergency fund, or investments.
The main point: BNPL shifts your money away from the things that actually build wealthāand you barely notice it happening.
āWorldpay suggests that BNPL accounted for $342bn in spending around the world last year, up from just over $2bn a decade earlierā
economist.com/finance-and-ecā¦
ā Conor Witt (@ckwitt3)
9:50 PM ⢠Aug 5, 2025
šØ The bigger problem: instant gratification kills long-term wealth
This is where it gets deeper.
You cannot build wealth if youāre unwilling to delay gratification.
Thatās the real issue here. BNPL teaches you to feed every impulseāand then deal with the consequences later.
Hereās the truth:
Buying with your own money builds strength.
Debt for non-essentials builds weakness.
Emergencies will comeāBNPL wonāt save you, but savings will.
Even if youāre paying off debt now, aim to set aside $1,000 in a mini emergency fund (just ask Dave Ramsey). That buffer protects you from slipping into debt again the next time life throws something your way.
Bottom line: BNPL isnāt just ābad because itās debt.ā Itās bad because it chips away at the mindset you need to become financially free.
š” Smart swaps: what to do instead of clicking āPay Laterā
ā Build a Mini Emergency Fund
Even $1,000 can break the BNPL cycle.
ā Use a Sinking Fund
Want something big? Save up in advance and buy it with prideānot panic.
ā Wait 48 hours before buying
Give your brain time to figure out if itās actually worth it.
The main point: You donāt need to deprive yourselfāyou just need to plan your spending around your money, not someone elseās.
š Bringing it home: Buy laterāwith cash
Letās recap:
š§Ø BNPL is still debtāeven when itās disguised as ā4 easy payments.ā
š Itās showing up in credit reports more and more.
ā It erodes your ability to delay gratificationāthe key to wealth.
š° If you canāt buy it with your own money, youāre not ready to buy it.
Bottom line: Financial freedom starts when you stop spending money you donāt have.
Cheers to getting 1% better each week! š„
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