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šø Needs vs. wants - How to make smart(er) spending choices
Balancing the āgotta-have-itsā from ānice-to-havesā, pick a strategy
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Letās tackle one of lifeās trickiest lessons: separating needs from wants. For kids, itās the age-old question:
Do I really need this, or is it just something I want?
Helping them learn to sort this out early builds smart money habits that will last a lifetimeāand might even save them (and you!) from those checkout line temptations now and then.
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š½ļø Main Course: šø The āNeeds vs. Wantsā Breakdown
Helping kids sort the true āgotta-have-itā essentials from the ānice-to-haveā extras can feel like a balancing act.
But with some creative twists, these money lessons can become something they actually enjoy!
š Needs vs. Wants ā āSurvival Kitā vs. āNice Extrasā š
Hereās a simple trick for kids (and adults...)
If it keeps you fed, warm, or learning, itās a āneed.ā But if itās just for fun? Thatās a āwant.ā
In other words:
Needs are the basics: things like regular clothes, food, school suppliesāboring but essential.
Wants are the extras: things like the sparkle-covered backpack or that new game they just have to try.
An experiment for the little onesā¦
Have kids make a list of their weekly āmust-havesā and ānice-to-haves.ā And donāt be surprised if a few of your own āwantsā sneak onto the list, tooāeveryone loves a treat now and then, especially this time of year š
šµ Smart Spending ā Treating Money Like an āAllowance Jarā š«
Kids might think of money like that endless bag of Halloween candyāalways there, always replenishing. But understanding that money isnāt an unlimited resource? Thatās where the real lesson must be learned.
The āCandy Jar Methodā for Allowance
Give kids a weekly or monthly allowance, and challenge them to make it last for both their āneedsā and āwants.ā Itās simple:
Once the money is gone, itās gone!
Think of it as their own āallowance jar.ā This helps them see their money in a limited supply, just like a candy jar that only gets refilled on allowance day.
Pro Tip: Set Mini Goals šÆ
If thereās a bigger item theyāve been eyeing, encourage them to save up. Theyāll start to see how saving now can mean a big reward later. This teaches them the value of patience and the satisfaction that comes with reaching a goal.
š Handling āImpulse Buysā (a.k.a. āBut I Need It Right Now!ā Syndrome)
Weāve all been there: standing in the checkout line when your kid suddenly decides they must have the next greatest thing right now. Enter impulse controlāa skill that, letās be honest, even adults can find challenging!
Teaching kids to hit pause before a purchase is like adding a mental āpause buttonā that can help prevent countless āare you sure?ā moments in the future.
Bonus Tip: Try the ā24-Hour Think-It-Overā Rule ā³
If theyāre convinced they want it, suggest they wait:
For older kids: A full 24 hours gives them time to consider if itās really worth it.
For younger ones: Even a couple of hours can help cool off that initial excitement.
Chances are, the āgotta have itā feeling will wear off a bit, and theyāll be better able to decide if itās something they truly want!
š Savor the Splurge - Yes, Wants Matter Too! š
Itās not all about saving and scrimping! Once kids get the hang of budgeting, an occasional splurge isnāt just funāitās healthy. After all, treating yourself is part of life!
If theyāve been wise with their spending, let them enjoy that special treat guilt-free. Itās a way to feel the thrill of buying something just for funāand knowing they earned it.
A Splurge Strategy: The āTreat Fundā š
Consider setting up a ātreat fundā for them. Hereās how it works:
Set aside a small amount here and there, purely for fun.
No saving or splitting requiredājust money they can spend however they want.
Even a modest treat fund can make all the difference. It lets them see that smart budgeting includes room for a little joy, too!
Key Insights:
Needs vs. Wants Game: Encourage kids to list their āmust-havesā and ānice-to-havesā to help them think more practically about whatās essential versus extra.
Allowance Jar Method: Once their set amount is gone, itās gone! This simple approach helps them grasp budgeting basics and learn to manage their funds.
Hitting the Mental Pause Button: Teaching kids to wait before a purchase builds patience. A ācooling offā period gives them a chance to decide if they really want something.
Celebrating the Wins: Setting up a treat fund allows for guilt-free joy spending, balancing responsibility with a little fun.
In the end, helping kids make smart spending choices is about finding a balance. With practice and these simple tricks, theyāll learn to separate needs from wantsāand feel great about their decisions!
Cheers to getting 1% better each week š„
P.S. ā Got your own clever way of teaching needs vs. wants? Hit reply and let us know - weād love to hear whatās working for you!
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